Personal reflection · Touch · Connection
The Power of an Enthusiastic Hug
A reflection on the warmth of a welcome hug, the importance of consent, and the small moments of connection that nourish us.
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Articles & Reflections
Occasional writing on relationships, intimacy, and human connection. A place to share what I’m learning, what the research invites us to consider, and reflections from a lifetime of listening and experience.
Sexuality · Intimacy · Connection
Great Sex Is About More Than Sex
Eight lessons from the science of optimal sexuality—and a reflection on what they might teach us about intimacy, friendship, and feeling deeply connected.
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Mixed-Orientation Marriages
Exploring disclosure, communication, and pathways to mutual happiness in mixed-orientation marriages, with an emphasis on kindness and positive support.
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